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Look at this second - 30 Dec 2025 - (4,910 words) - Jaynes Baby Bank

Look at this second... was it third or fourth reinstatement from the resignation?
Obviously this was done because I was on holiday so she wanted me to deal with what I was on holiday expect.
But there we are, we were busy.
It was very nice on holiday but I think all-inclusive is too much now.
I couldn't cope with it.
There was too much food, too much excess of everything.
It was lovely but I think next year or next time we go, I don't know if we're gonna go this year, because it was exhausting to be honest to go.
And in the end I ended up just throwing some stuff in a bag and going.
I wasn't even packed.
You could see that by the two little bags we had.
We just chucked some stuff in a bag and went.
And you know I had 365 days notice if not more because I booked it last year.
But it was just too much.
I think perhaps what we might do is go half-board or what we might do is get a villa because the other thing is you can't go in the pool after like six o'clock abroad.
And then you know me.
I don't come out live till this time of night, do I?
You know I'm like a zombie through the day.
And the night is when I come alive and I'm nocturnal.
Right, so very important message.
Did she type that?
Anyway right, as many of you are well aware, my name and much of my families and friends have been recently dragged across social media for most of this year.
Well actually they've been dragged across social media for nearly 10 to 15 years now.
Possibly 20 before that.
And you're very quick to ring the newspapers to get your name in the newspaper aren't you?
Very quick to put your name out there.
I've been doing this for five years and all you've done is attack me and drag my name through the mud.
And all we've done is go from success to success.
Conquer any hurdle you've thrown in front of us and just got more and more respect for what we're doing and brought more and more people around to our site.
I've always believed in judging people by their actions not words.
I don't know about that.
I might not bring that evidence to light yet.
I can honestly say that the opinions of a few clowns mean nothing to me.
They obviously do mean something to you because you resigned for the ninth time.
Is that even a word?
I don't even think it was a word.
I think it was just a sound.
So they do mean something to you unless the resignation was a complete publicity stunt again and you are a complete narcissist.
Let that one to the public to decide were you genuinely upset or was it another publicity stunt?
The thing is now what I can see and whatever people can see and the public can see because I could take this to the police and do it all behind closed doors but what's the point?
If you're going to publicly shame me, publicly attack me, publicly harass me, leave sarky little comments everywhere then I'm going to mirror exactly what you do and do it back to you.
But I think people can see now was this a publicity stunt or were you genuinely upset?
Because there's a pattern forming.
So people can now see there is a pattern forming.
Everything that you said happened with Ian Smith.
You know saying's happened with us but on a smaller time scale.
But yet we're over you, more successful than either of you.
We're more successful than either of you put together and yet you're trying to make out that we're doing exactly what Ian Smith did to you.
Now I could have brought all of this to light a lot quicker if Ian Smith would have shut up, got his fat a** out of the situation and let me dealt with it but no he had to throw himself on the sacrificial altar and I had to deal with him first.
But you've already put him and his family through this.
All he was doing was trying to run a CIC for the homeless.
Whether he did it right or not is another public discussion.
Whether he was uneducated in the way to do it is another public discussion because maybe he had good intentions but maybe he didn't know what to do with them.
Maybe you got it over and well overwhelmed by the situation.
We sometimes find that sometimes volunteers that come in and have never seen 60 million tons of donations in one day get overwhelmed by the situation and think that they can take stuff away for free because it's been donated for free.
And we've had situations in the past where members of staff have taken stuff for free without even asking, booking it down, doing anything because they're overwhelmed with how much has been given for free.
What they didn't realize until they were educated was that actually it doesn't belong to them, it doesn't belong to me, it doesn't belong to Dan, it doesn't belong to anybody, it belongs to the baby bank.
Once it's been passed over that threshold it belongs to the baby bank.
But they needed to be educated of that first.
So he could have been running his CIC incorrectly due to lack of education.
And you should know that as a compliance officer because your job would have been about educating people to comply.
But I think what I can see and what the public can see is a pattern forming.
However, when things escalated to the point where my family's property and more importantly my children were affected, it crossed the line.
So what about when my son's car have been attacked?
What about when my son's been attacked?
What about when my son had to put up with people bothering him when he was up out of a barricade unit?
When he's had to have somebody come in in Caerphilly shop and, you know, I think it's happened to him twice in Caerphilly shop.
Twice he's gone down there, I think it's twice something's happened to him.
So what about all the times that he was attacked?
And you publicly attacked him and you reported us to social services when I was a single mother, which I come across by entire accident because when I put in my subject access about the complaints you've written about me, I didn't put any dates on it like a clown,
like an idiot, not thinking straight.
And obviously they did everything from the furthest back date that you'd ever complained about.
So where does it cross the line?
There's individuals that thrive on hate and obsession.
You're one of them because you're obsessed with creating this narrative that people are bullying you when, in fact, nobody is bullying you.
You're writing complaints trying to get them shut down and they're retaliating because you've got no right to do it because you want the monopoly on everything.
You wanted to take, you didn't like the fact that he was running a homeless venture and you tried to take him down because you didn't want him to have any eggs.
You didn't want him to pick up anything from the supermarket.
You didn't want him to have a bus.
You didn't want us to have a baby bank.
You don't want us to pick up any food.
You.
Because you want the monopoly on everything.
Attempting to attack my character is one thing, but the level of fixation simply because I volunteer for charity.
It's not because you volunteer for a charity.
It's not because you set up for a charity.
This is nothing to do with jealousy whatsoever because let me tell you something now.
One thing I wouldn't want to do is work with a homeless, but I don't want to work with a homeless.
I'm happy with babies and children and some other stuff that we do.
Okay.
This isn't about jealousy.
This is about you constantly attacking other groups that won't fall in line with you, won't bow down at your feet and say, oh, thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you for letting me into the realm.
Thank you for letting me do this.
This is about you and your behaviour and how you constantly report other people for getting on with their lives and doing their own thing because you want the monopoly on everything.
You want all the praise and glory.
I don't want any praise and glory.
I wanted to do this anonymously.
You made me famous.
You made me that famous that Facebook is now paying me to post about you.
You fool.
Many people have expressed genuine worry for my safety based on some of the actions taken.
I'm going to flip this a minute.
This is one of the comments that I've had tonight of someone that I know works as a civil servant.
Just keeping an eye on you.
She's asking for someone to give her a wheelchair so it can be the fairy godmother handing it over.
Exactly.
Why can't the person just take the wheelchair to the person who needs it?
Why can't you buy her a fundraising?
But those things aren't cheap.
No, they're not.
They're very expensive.
But if you knew anything, that individual might be able to get one on the NHS but they need to be measured for it because there's a specific wheelchair form you have to fill in as a nurse.
Okay, so maybe what you should have done is refer them back to the GP.
Because what you don't want to be doing is taking... you don't want to be de-empowering somebody and putting them in a wheelchair.
You know, which again could be down to education on your part.
They need to be telling the GP that they need a wheelchair first.
Um,
why doesn't she... why doesn't she say she can anyone help this person?
Yes, it's got to be you.
It has to come through the middle person, doesn't it?
Yeah.
But no, she wants the glory all the time.
Um, my friend said to me, pop in and I'll meet her.
No, thank you.
She's not someone I want anything to do with as much as I dislike Smithy.
I thought it was bad how her people attacked him.
The man especially was enjoying it and you could see he was excited.
Yeah, they were excited.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's not the kind I bother.
Yeah.
And like I said, yeah, they... they were excited and he was visually shook up and it was two against one.
Okay.
Whenever they turn up at the shop with me, there's always two of them.
And they both go enamoring and they both go yelping up the street to the police.
And it's like, don't come in here and start a fight if you don't get bloody armored.
I find it sickening.
It's all about her and her feelings, her charity control.
How can't they see it?
It's scary.
Really, it's not normal.
The paranoia shows and she tells people to report anyone who doesn't agree with her.
I can see this all blowing up big.
Yeah, I haven't even started yet.
I mean, you
so you're worried, you're genuinely worried about your safety.
I don't know about that because you were the ones who were physically retaliating.
When I've come to my shop, I've never been charged for anything that's happened in my shops because it's all been self-defense and it's all on CCTV.
Outside, inside, audio.
I've never been arrested or charged for anything.
When these people have turned up in pairs to take me out, an assassination attempt, and ended up getting battered to death.
They, within an inch of their lives, they, nobody's ever arrested me because it's classed as self-defense.
You went looking for him and they were riled up.
They were riled up to to deal with our situation.
Both of them were.
And to be honest, I don't know what your husband does for a living.
Somebody said that your husband doesn't live with you for the simple reason you can claim more benefits, which we know you are the benefit queen.
We know that.
But your son didn't look as disabled as you've made out over the last couple of years and you've had kids claiming care as allowance for him.
Did he?
He's had a miraculous recovery, haven't he?
He's been touched by the hand of Jesus.
He's had a miraculous recovery.
Um,
I have, oh if I didn't know, hang on.
I don't know.
I'll go back.
I have continued to ignore, block, you haven't though, have you?
You haven't, you're writing comments, sarky little comments everywhere.
You haven't blocked people because you have about 50 different accounts a year.
And they're all tagged on your, on your post.
Or all your staff keep tagging you in them so people can see you've got them.
I've got you on my block list about 10 times at least.
And you're still popping up.
Because I'm built for far stronger stuff.
Through, no you try to orchestrate it so that you look like the victim and it backfired on you and you stepped down and then you were stuck because you were stepped down.
Then you were called out for fraud.
Then you didn't like it when I mentioned the vicar, the drug dealing vicar, the guy's qualifications in prison that live opposite you.
Then you thought, shit I gotta go back.
I need to be a person of significant control again because I need to bury stuff under a rug quick.
May as well ask for one that we don't need to do.
We only really got a rug.
We need a big one.
One that flies so it can fly off.
Throughout this I've been overwhelmed by the love, respect and support shown to me.
Oh well you guessed that because you're always looking for validation.
I have cried more tears than I can count to find ways to protect the charity I founded and manage.
Have a day off, am I now?
When I stepped down from my position of authority, my position of authority,
I did it to protect the charity.
Yeah because you were going to get shut down.
The harassment then spread to other volunteers and it became painfully... what's an harassment?
We called out Sue Penrose Smaive or whatever her name is.
Mrs Bucket.
What do you call her?
The Duchess?
Mrs Bucket.
We called her out because she runs the bus company and she's directly benefited from the grants.
And the council confirmed that and then there was... oh yeah we called you out.
My civil servant found that actually.
Pretty good civil servant too she is.
That you'd said that friends and family on your your profile picture.
Make the donations by making friends and family.
You can't do that.
How long have you been doing that?
Because you've got charges to pay.
That is fraud.
Both of those things are fraud.
Let me be absolutely clear.
HCT is a registered charity not a business.
Yes.
But you're a registered charity that's committed fraud.
It's even worse.
And you could go to prison for 10 to 15 years for that.
Because you knew about it.
Because you're a compliance officer.
So you would have known about that.
So you would have known that you've got to get three different quotes with somebody who has nothing to do with the charity whatsoever or the business or whatever.
Because you're a compliance officer.
So you would have known that.
And then it's up to the council to pick the quote.
But you never told them that the significantly lower quote was from Mrs. Bucket Smith.
Penrose Smith.
Did it?
You neglected to tell them that.
They're looking into it because I've spoken to them.
And you didn't just get your registered charity number.
Did you?
Somebody did it for you because that same person approached me.
So let's just make this absolutely clear now.
You were still bumming around the place.
Not as a registered charity until this person reached out and helped you become a registered charity.
There is no fraud.
There is.
There's two counts of fraud that I have seen so far.
It is run entirely by volunteers who give their free time.
Yes, it is.
And I respect the team.
The team work hard.
You don't.
They work hard.
And what you didn't like was that you stepped down and everybody could see that the team, the helping caring team, was still functioning quite well without you being a trustee and a person of significant control.
As the lies and defamation continue.
Well, I am being arrested for lies or defamation because obviously you can only get arrested if it's not the truth.
Defamation is, you know, slander is only slander if it's not true.
Many urged me to sort it out the old-fashioned way.
You can come to my door any day and come and sort it out the old-fashioned way.
But the last ones that come to my place of work to sort it out the old-fashioned way went yelping up the street because they reckoned, they alleged that they got beaten to death by a health and safety sign as a pay at the same time.
So crack on if you want to deal with it the old-fashioned way.
The old-fashioned way is satirising.
Others feared losing their HCT support and many were deeply... why would they lose their HCT support because the team are keeping it running.
You're the one bringing the charity into disrepute.
You are the one.
You are the one with all this drama going on.
You are the one that's creating all these problems.
You are the one leaving sarky comments everywhere.
You're the one telling people to report us and boycott us.
Why would they want to come see the pink... not a pink pantry.
What's it called?
I don't know.
The pink everything you got.
And buy the stuff that you get donated because we've seen the stuff you get donated.
When they can come to me and get absolutely stunning stuff because we get the best donations.
I tell you we do.
I know that because everybody says, everybody walks in our shops and they're like a it's either too cluttered and they don't like it but but b they say we love it because there's stuff that's in here.
But we got too much stuff.
We know that.
It's a reoccurring problem.
But why would they want to come to you and buy your cheap stuff when they can come to us and buy something that's vintage, being fixed, repaired, lovingly restored or antique or collectible.
I made the heartbreaking decision to step down from trustee solely to protect the charity.
Oh I read this one I think.
What's this?
Others feared losing HTC support and many were deeply hurt by the relentless abuse from the known scammers.
Who's the known scammers then?
Because Ian Smith wasn't arrested for scamming any money out of his charity.
I've never been arrested for scamming any money.
So who are you calling the scammer?
And that's a very particular word that isn't it?
Scammer.
Because you weren't always a charity but nobody called you a scammer did they?
Until you got your charity number, how long did you operate before you actually got a charity number?
Not everybody starts out as a charity they start out with something small and then they build to something big and something big and think right we are getting a bit out of control now so maybe we need a bit more regulation and a bit more help from authoritative bodies and we register as a CIC or a community group or an AFC or you know a constituted community group or a charity so that we've got other people governing us and we know that we're doing everything the right way but no you've got to attack them straight away if you need to take them down.
Remember when you turned up on my doorstep with out-to-date baby milk trying to make... trying so that you could get a post off me saying thank you Hayley Thomas for the baby milk it was out-to-date Hayley you left it on the doorstep in the sun which is against food hygiene which you've got your food hygiene certificate I need a compliance officer you should have known that leaving it out there in the sun and it was out-of-date Hayley I didn't answer the door to you though did I because I got a ring doorbell I was like oh I'm answering the door to her what were we now oh I've read this one oh no I got that one done that one respectfully ask what's this now hang on the situation has cost me dearly emotionally physically and financially Well yeah,
I mean, you know.
Look at... look at... you were the one that's creating the problem though.
So you were the one that should step down.
From CCTV and security upgrades, to repairs, to family property and charity vehicles.
But I will not be broken.
No, but you'll allow the charity to be called into the disrespect.
After searching my heart and speaking with those who I know and love me, the decision is clear.
I'm not going anywhere.
You never went anywhere.
You were still there.
You didn't go.
And you're still there now.
And I said it all along.
You're not going anywhere.
Because you're too much of a narcissist.
No bullies, lies or cruelty.
Oh my god.
Oh my god.
Are you seriously bully cruelty and lies?
Unbelievable, Hayley.
Whatever break me, this charity is part of me and who I am, I built it from nothing.
I will love it fiercely and believe in it all heartedly.
It's not about the charity.
Hayley, it's about your behaviour.
I find it sickening.
It's all about her.
This is what the public think of her, not me.
The feelings, her charity, the control.
How can't they see it?
It's scary.
Really.
It's not normal.
The paranoid.
Well, it's not normal because it's funding her lifestyle.
So if she walks away from it, that's her funding for her lifestyle gone.
If these people are up to no good, like I told you they are, they can't let go of it, can they?
The paranoid shows and she tells people to report anyone who doesn't agree with her.
I can see this blowing up big.
Where have I even started?
I haven't even started yet.
I just release what I want to release when I want to release it.
Please, please, continue.
What's she doing?
Respectfully.
Oh my god.
Wait a minute.
Where is she to now?
I now have appropriate legal and police support.
You don't, because the police always ask me if I've ever got anything on, you let them know.
In places to bring this painful chapter to an end.
For now, I won't be commenting further.
You just did.
I respectfully ask that no names are mentioned.
I don't need to see the hate.
Must be awful for you waking up knowing that somebody's holding a mirror to you and everybody can see you for who you are.
But please continue to report anything.
Yeah, well what's happened?
She's gone to the police.
The appropriate police support have said.
If you don't like what the baby bank woman is saying, don't upset her.
Suck it up, princess.
Like they said to Ian Smith.
Suck it up, princess.
Block her.
Suck the devil.
You know, the police can see a part in Hayley.
You did this with Ian Smith.
Then you did it with some other woman.
I can't remember.
Who was the other woman?
Nicola Garrett?
I don't even know who she is.
I must have blocked her straight away.
Because I'm oblivious to that person.
And now you're doing it to me.
And the police know us.
And the police, you know, they've never arrested us for anything we do with the baby bank.
They probably think it's quite funny that you're getting back exactly what you're given.
Suck it up, princess.
That's what they said to Ian Smith.
Respectfully ask that no names are mentioned and no hate.
But please continue to report anything.
Yeah, so you're trying to get other people to report us because the police don't want to know.
And please block the hater.
I don't want to see it.
And if you feel the same, then it's easy.
Block and report and take away the voice of hate.
Yeah, block us.
Because if you're friends with her and you're sucking up to her and kissing her arse all day, block us because we don't want nothing to do with you.
Simple arse, you know.
We like objective people with free minds.
But thanks to all who've supported me and not believed the horrific abuse and lies.
Oh, what about the abuse and lies you say about us then that we're scammers and that I'm so-and-so and I'm so-and-so somebody else and I've done this and I've done that and I've terrorized my neighbours even though my neighbours are on a police warning not to even come on my driveway.
And they're not allowed to speak to us in the street or acknowledge us or stand on step ladders over our fence screaming at us.
What about, you know, all the stuff you've said trying to defame my family, trying to defame my volunteers, which you can't.
My volunteers are the salt of the earth.
What about all the other things you've said then?
Because if I was a scammer, I would have been arrested by now, wouldn't I?
I've never been arrested for anything to do with a baby.
Never.
Or the council or trading standards would have shut us down.
I am returning to trustee board and continuing my voluntary role exactly where I belong alongside the most dedicated team I can ask for.
Yeah, they look good without doing fair play.
Right, they look... you did, HET.
You looked effing good without her.
You don't need her.
I promised I would deal with it properly.
Yeah, but she's got... the thing is now, she's got to go back in now because she hasn't got any significant control.
So they could potentially vote her out as owner anyway because they're trustees.
And I have... you haven't dealt with any problem.
I will now allow the legal process to take its course.
Ah, I love my HET with my whole heart.
I'm still standing, still giving, still here and that will never change.
Stalking away in ass.
It would help if you didn't stalk me.
Obsession.
You know, it would help if you weren't obsessed with me or obsessed with the monopoly on everything.
Because if somebody started up tomorrow now and they started up a homeless baby bank slash food bank in the colour yellow, you'd want to take them down, right?
Even if they never even met you, you'd want to take them down.
Hate speech.
Hashtag hate speech.
It's quite funny because you've got hashtag stalking away in ass because you are the stalker.
Hashtag obsession because you are obsessed and hashtag hate speech.
You're the one writing the hate speech.
You're the one that was writing things all over Facebook and tagging me and saying, oh, she's awful.
She's exactly like Ian Smith.
I'm nothing like Ian Smith.
You're like Ian Smith.
And everybody can see it now.
But all you did was attack that man.
And yes, he might not have been very good at his job.
Yes, he might have done stuff the wrong way.
But who are you to make that decision?
That's what the police are there for.
That's what the CIC commission are there for.
That's what the council are there for.
That's what trading standards are there for.
That's their job.
It's not your job to go around reporting people and getting them shut down.
Is it?
And maybe if you concentrated on what you were supposed to be doing, then you wouldn't be in this situation now where you've had to have this publicity stunt and step down and people can now see the pattern of what's going on.
You wouldn't have made HCT look fully functional without you.
If anything, I thought they looked really good.
I thought you looked really good HCT without her.
I thought she just looked like a hanger on her in the corner, pathetic, whining in the corner, like a basket case.
Whereas you looked good.
You looked the business.
And that Carrie-Anne is running the shop.
And it's about time she had a bit of recognition for it, I think.
But yeah, I mean, you know, well done.
Made yourself look stupid again, didn't you?
Made me look good.